The other side of pregnancy

Some have the thought that all becoming mothers walk through their whole pregnancy as if they were walking on pink fluffy clouds

That all they do is being excited about the child

the child that is suppose to come out of their body.

cause its Amazing isnt it?

there is a lifeform growing inside!

But what no one said was that it can also lead to

a crisis

to brooding

worries,

fear

beacuse let's face it:

a change is coming.

And it's not small.

It's a big overwhelming wave

coming our way

and it's beautiful

magnificent.

But how can we possibly imagine it before it arrives?

How can we possibly know how we will handle it's consequences? 

Love/ Mom 

Welcome

Welcome to our blog. To Zendad and the ( in her own opinion) not so zenmom. This is about a new life thats in progress inside moms body, about the questions and perks of parenting a child she did not give life to. It's also about being a Zendad, about the interesting quest to sometimes be between his son and his loved one and about becoming a dad for the second time. It's about challenges, thoughts, laughs, issues and the warm feeling you get of a child. Basicly it's about a modern family, asking questions and making statements about what it's really like (from a subjective perspective of course) to be and to become a parent. So welcome, glad to have you here.

Love/

Zendad and mom.