Hi.
We have been going to an preparation course for the birth and pregnancy which has been an interesting experience to say the least.
So far in the course, I realized one thing, as a man i am only to do one thing, get the woman a glass of water and massage her.
Thats it!
At the course we have been watching a movie on how it can be.
It was like an scripted commercial although they had an naked women give birth in it...
The pink clouds was everywhere, and the men only were there to give massage...
Yeah, right!
Let me tell you this right now, i am not just going to be there to give her a massage, i will do everything i can, and so will she.
As do we always.
And an scripted commercial is not going to cut it.
Women and men have been going through this for ages, just do it!
If you want to add anything extra, thats up to you.
But guys don't just massage her...
In an pregnancy and an childbirth, there is three people, although, it seems only two matters...
And if i'm not important, what am i doing there?
Everything!
May the force be with you
Zendad
